David:
Please don't take what I about to say as a personal insult (it is certainly not meant to be), but the time for polite, indirect and vague language has passed for me. We have done the rounds (so to speak) again and again - all without the slightest effect on outcome. I see from your website you are obviously extremely dedicated to special educational provision, but for most real-life experience is at best a 'smokescreen' and at worst damaging to their children.
On the subject of 'sufficiently included'. Yes, my nephew has been included in drug-taking, the carrying of weapons (one of his obsessions), smoking, drinking alcohol, being mugged for his dinner money, having some quite nasty tricks played on him, being extensively bullied (something he failed to comprehend until he was 10) and he has been 'included' in isolation 21 times and suspended 4/5 times for bad behaviour.
Yes, we have been made aware of all the various placatory support options available, but our issue remains with the fundamental provision of schools. There appears, as always, to a massive gulf between 'ideal theory' and provision as practiced on the ground. Most teachers are poorly trained, poorly advised and poorly motivated to deal with anything, which places further stress on their working day.
We have been offered yet another review (read 18 months) to decide whether or not to implement yet another round of ineffective 'after the horse has bolted' measures to address an issue which will become irrelevant in 2 years when he leaves school at 16.
The entire education system has totally failed my nephew. Yet, another poorly thought out and poorly implemented 'experiment' which will have cost yet another generation of children the opportunities enjoyed by the offspring of the policy-makers, teachers, psychologists and social workers involved in and perpetuating this 'racket'. Making glaringly inept decisions, which affect those less able to benefit from the system.
My sister attended an autistic conference recently, only to be told (along with 150+ others) by a leading SEN figure from our local LEA that most schools 'have got it wrong'. Most parents at the conference were in tears after and comparing their own life experiences with a summary of how it should be done.
I think it is about time that the education industry admitted it 'got it wrong' and set about putting it right before anymore damage is done. This would mean our LEA funding substantially more than the approx. 45 dedicated places available in our county for the 1 in 90 children diagnosed as autistic, but then again that would cost money - which is really what this policy is designed to avoid.
I simply do not want to wait for Jamie Oliver to have an autistic child before anything is done!!
Thank you for comments – I sincerely hope you feel sufficiently un-insulted enough to reply.
Regards,
Steve