I have entered this debate a little late, but since you seek the views of more female members on this issue, I would like to add that there are 2 main reasons why I have not yet contributed to debates:
1. I have very little time after all other must dos have been accomplished (usually about 11.30pm) even to read messages, let alone formulate an intelligent reply to them. I teach part-time and have children.
2. I am a member of other active forums, which are at present more relevant to my teaching.
However, I do have a very keen interest in the use of ICT. I intend to remedy this "no time" s